Italian. Hopelessly in love with ladies, both in the feminist sense and in the lesbian sense. This is not a spoiler-free blog but I tag pretty much everything. Header by @asolitaryrose
triple AAA developers getting butthurt on twitter about how baldurs gate is an anomaly and shouldn’t set the standard for future games is just embarrassing.
“don’t expect games like BG3 to come out because they just got lucky”
larian is PASSIONATE as hell about this game, you can just tell how much they care in interviews. people should and will spport larian for their hardwork, for listening to player feedback, and for creating a great game!
So within two days of each other, Fox News writes an article comparing aromanticism and asexuality to pedophilia, and then Matt Walsh releases a video saying asexuality is a mental illness and asexuals are tricking teenagers into having depression.
Not sure what’s going on right now over in Conservative World, but it’s a hell of wild U-turn for them to suddenly switch from “Oh no! The left is sexualizing our children!” to “Oh no! The left is asexualizing our children!”
It’s a reminder, I guess, that they’re coming for all of us. The fash and the white supremacists will not make nice distinctions between the queers when they put us up against the wall. There is no gatekeeping, no label-policing, no purity-purging and no assimilation that any of us can do that will save us. They want us dead, and while they’ll start with whoever is most vulnerable at any given time, they’ll get around to all of us eventually.
Queer solidarity means all of us because the fash are coming for all of us.
All Dividers are Feds. Stand united or die separately.
ANYONE who is trying to divide our community is a fucking Fed. That includes other queers who like to argue about who is and isn’t “allowed” in our community.
also truly crazy to me that people are mad at lanfear being played by someone who’s like 30 and not like 18 like first of all that’s not even old second of all as if this isn’t the people who want to fuck older women show like this is a show for people who got called an old soul but were actually showing signs of trauma, autistic people whose work bestie is 50, current or former teachers pets, and gay people who are really boring in their personal lives like straight men it is not for youuuuuuuu it’s literally not FOR you
closeting is never a closeted person’s fault, no matter their reasons for staying in the closet, no matter how involuntarily or voluntarily a person is closeted. closeting is a direct product of homophobia and heteronormativity and thus cannot be facilitated by a lgbt+ person. even the so-called choice to stay in the closet does not lay blame upon the lgbt+ person because they did not creat the closet, straight people did. closeting is entirely the fault of straight people and a closeted lgbt+ person is no less lgbt+ for it
emotional impermanence is so funny bc like. i forgot that i am relevant in people’s lives. my friend since i was 10 asked me if i would be in her bridal party and when i burst into tears and thanked her for thinking of me and wanting me to be there she was like “why would i not want you there??? we’ve known & loved each other longer then we haven’t.” and i was like oh yeah. i forgot ab the part where you love me too